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Fey Holmer

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Picky

Picky

New Video on my YouTube channel! Talking about how we can sabotage ourselves by being Picky. Please don’t forget to subscribe to the channel ūüôā Xo, Fey

Face of Happiness

Face of Happiness

Hello hello my darlings, Today, I’ve posted this picture that I am featuring in this post on my Instagram profile. (If you yet don’t follow me on Insta please feel free to follow it because it really helps @feyholmer) The face of happiness, right? Are […]

Denver

Denver

Hello Hello darlings,

I went to Denver, CO this past weekend. What a great time!

It is incredible to see friends who are moving on with their lives, and wishing the same to myself.

Every time I go there, I always feel like I’m learning something and making me question the next steps of my journey. Nothing is easy, but taking this time to analyze what to do next is as important.

If you ever go to Denver don’t forget to try Cherry Cricket’s hamburger! Plus, enjoy the view because nature is everywhere there.

Xo,

Fey

Top 5 TV Couples

Top 5 TV Couples

Top 5 TV Couples by Fey Holmer Hello hello my darlings, Apparently people like lists, so I’ve selected my Top 5 Tv Couples. Cory and Topanga – this couple caught my attention when I was as little as they were on screen (okay maybe I […]

Abused

Abused

Hello hello,

The topic that I’ve been working on for my next video on youtube is about being abused as a child.

(If you don’t know I have an youtube channel here is the link ->¬†https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPYIDQgs9ODLXOOC1P6liZw)

Anyways, the topic is really intense and makes me wonder about so many things that goes about being abused. Unfortunately, I keep asking myself the same question “What happened to me wasn’t that bad?, but I shouldn’t have to ask that question because abuse is abuse it has no size, especially when still affects your well-being.

I hope you can give me your support by watching the video.

Xo,

Fey

When something doesn’t make sense anymore

When something doesn’t make sense anymore

Hello hello, Fey is back, and wondering as usual. Caught myself with this wonder “when something doesn’t make sense anymore”… For some it might be a job they do and they wish to not do it anymore, it could be a relationship that has grow […]

Santa Monica and Fey

Santa Monica and Fey

Hello hello, Fey here today to share this calming pic that I just received from Ozgur, a photographer from Turkey, with whom I did a collaboration photoshoot in the gorgeous Santa Monica,CA. The possibilities within online work are so immense that sometimes I feel a […]

13 Reasons Why? Netflix Hit Series

13 Reasons Why? Netflix Hit Series

Hello Hello,

Yesterday was confirmed that 13 Reasons Why, the Netflix show, just got picked up for a second season.

Also from yesterday, I actually finish to watch the first season of 13 Reasons Why. I have to admit that I took my time with the show, even though it was only 13 episodes I tried not to watch it at night because the tension is real! (I hate going to sleeping when I’m tense.)

Hannah Baker was indeed a troubled teenage girl. But, are we all troubled, somehow?

There were so many great messages to take from this show, about how words can really affect someone. Actions too. Actually, what you say to someone is an action too. I don’t know what hurts more sometimes a punch in the face or listen to the same verbal aggression over and over again.

Hannah Baker wasn’t strong enough to defend herself. Anyways, a¬†question came to me after seeing all that suffering. Who are we to judge someone who doesn’t want to live?

I love living, don’t get me wrong but I am not God or the Universe. I am not a religion. If living wasn’t working for her, I shall accept the person’s decision, right? Or not matter how much the person doesn’t want to live, he/she just needs to do it and deal with it? Personally, it doesn’t sound right.

In the characters case, she wanted to be saved. She wanted to find a meaning to continue to live. But, can we really call her a coward for not being able to cope?

While, re-thinking this whole tv show I caught myself asking all these questions. We live in this world where we follow certain rules and saying certain things are incorrect.

As long we respect one another and know our purposes, I think we should learn from this show that judging someone else without really knowing that person, just really “sucks”.

Thank you Hannah Baker you made me think today and yesterday…. and wander….

Xo,

Fey

The First

The First

The first post, I’ve been going on about what to say in my first post on this website that also carries my name, #feyholmer. I decided that the start would be about my friends. Yes, friendships still exist in those days where everything is so […]